Warning…gushy!

Okay, so heads up, it’s a bit of gushy blog!  And it’s not about me, it’s about my hubby.  My wonderful wonderful hubby.  :)  The love of my life, and quite often my only source of sanity! I just wanted to take a minute to thank him, the wonderful guy, for being so supportive and loving (he reads my blogs, what  a sweetie!!)  He’s been so great since I’ve been trying to lose weight….all nearly five years!  LOL!

 And it got me to thinking, how hard is this for HIM?  I mean, he’s so great and he’s always telling me I’m beautiful and sexy, even when I feel like the cow that ate the barn, but he’s also cheering me on with my weightloss and telling me how proud he is.  But what a conundrum!  Have you ever wondered how a guy figures out just where to be on that very fine line?  Like, too much support and the woman thinks the man thinks she’s fat…and resentment builds.  Too little support and the woman thinks the man doesn’t care about her and what she’s going thru…and resentment builds.

 Makes me think…poor guy!  How does a man show the woman he loves that he supports her, and yet still loves her just the way she is??  Very tricky!!  Why are women so complicated?!? LOL!  We should really make it easier on the poor guys!!

 Well, I just want to thank my very agile hubby for managing, somehow, to walk that very fine line and show me his support and encouragement, and yet still make me feel totally loved and sexy! 

Here’s to another great day of exercise and food choices…so I can be a better me for me…and for him too!!

6 Comments so far

  1. jenn13 @ January 22nd, 2008

    Kudos to your awesome hubby!

  2. JustJane47 @ January 22nd, 2008

    Sounds like a good husband to me!! Mine is very supportive too, I like that. We just joined the YMCA so together we can be healthy!! Best wishes and its nice to see you happy and so in love with your husband. I feel the same with mine!!!

  3. buttercup @ January 22nd, 2008

    Not me. I plan to drive my husband completely whacko with all my female complex ways. LOL

    Jussssssssssst kidding. (feeling spunky today)

    I think it’s awesome that your husband supports and loves you… and seems to know that fine line with you. I think it’s equally awesome that you recognize that in him.

    Huggggggggs,
    Shan

  4. harleygirl @ January 22nd, 2008

    That great! It sounds like you and your hubby have a great thing going. Congrats to both of you for finding the other!

  5. karizia74 @ January 22nd, 2008

    You are absolutely right Chai we woman are complicated !! But what would we do without our other half !! looks like you have a great support at home :) !! that is fantastic… My daughter is my support on weekends she does exercise with me LOL she is soooo funny!!

  6. thrive @ January 22nd, 2008

    Yay to your man and to a great relationship! Honesty for starters goes along way especially if it’s tempered with all that love and support you 2 have going on! My hubby, too, is a wonderful guy and i love the ways he supports me especially when he helps choose smart and healthy foods!

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